Bespoke humanist wedding ceremonies, custom-made for you, your way
Planning your wedding ceremony or, maybe a renewal of vows? You have come to the right place!
A humanist ceremony is all about your love and your commitment: a joyful, deeply personal, one-off occasion designed to reflect who you truly are as individuals and what you care about most.
I will create a personalised ceremony, exclusively for you.
We will collaborate, getting to know each other over time, creating an unforgettable celebration that will provide happy memories for you, your family and friends to cherish for years to come.
Image (above) of Craig and Hayley on their fabulous day, kindly supplied by Sarah Fitzgerald Jones Photography
About Humanist Wedding Celebrant Cotswolds
Trained, accredited and fully insured by Humanists UK
I love writing, I love weddings and I love meeting new people so, being a celebrant is a perfect fit for me!
I live in the Cotswolds and provide bespoke, hand-crafted, humanist / non-religious ceremonies for weddings, partnerships and renewals of vows in and around the Cotswolds, Gloucestershire and the Southwest. (I'm also delighted to travel further afield, even abroad so, do ask!)
I am proud to be a fully inclusive celebrant, writing and conducting ceremonies for everyone, including members of BAME communities, people with disabilities and those who identify as LGBTQ+🌈 #YouDontNeedToAskHere
Interested? I’d love to hear from you!
How we'll work together
Developing a humanist ceremony is a true process of collaboration: we will get to know each other over time, so that I can get right to the core of your story. I will want to know as much about you as possible: your likes/dislikes; your highs (maybe your lows); the fun stuff; the big stuff; the everyday stuff; how you met; how you get on (how you don’t); your dreams; where you’re heading … well, you get the picture.
As well as the personal things, we will design how the ceremony works and all the elements you want to include to make it perfect – the music, the readings, the vows, the rituals. We will talk and write and edit (lots!) until you have the best ceremony ever. It’s a lot of work but I can promise you it will also be a lot of fun!
If this sounds like what you’re looking for, then read on…
I love meeting new couples for the first time! We will have an informal, no-obligation chat over tea and cake.
We can do this in person, remotely via the internet or, we can have a conversation on the phone.
(Even if we don’t meet in person, we should still have tea and cake!)
You Book me
After we meet, and you decide you want us to work together, I will ask you to pay a booking fee, which will confirm your date in my diary.
Now the fun starts! We will begin with a simple questionnaire for you both to complete, giving me all the information I need to start building the structure and content of your ceremony.
Next, we will meet to collaborate on the planning. This can be face-to-face (over more tea and cake - naturally!) or, for couples who live too far away (i.e. abroad) we can use video calling, like Skype or FaceTime.
We will discuss everything from who you are as people, your stories, plans, hopes, dreams and aspirations through to practical details such as the location, timing and size of your wedding, what you would like to include and who the main people are who will perform a role on the day.
Taking the information you have shared with me, I will get on with developing the first draft of the ceremony. I have a straightforward writing style and, whilst never neglecting the importance of the occasion, I will add the odd splash of humour here and there, to reflect the happy nature of your day!
We can review as many times as you want, until we get it exactly how you want it to be. (I will always be available at the end of the phone or via email/WhatsApp/text to discuss and lend ideas and offer support.)
Soon before the wedding, we can meet for a rehearsal. This is quick and relaxed, always fun and a sure way to deal with any nerves, ensuring everyone involved has an opportunity to practice before the real thing.
We won’t go through the entire ceremony. (Better to save that excitement for the day!) Instead, we will focus on choreography and any 'pinch points', like practicing the entrance and exit; who needs to sit/stand where; who has responsibility for what and how any symbolic rituals (e.g. hand fasting/tree-planting etc.) you might have chosen will work.
So, you will be able to relax on the actual day, feeling confident that everything will run smoothly.
The Big Day happens!
I will arrive early to ensure that everything necessary for your ceremony is properly in place. Then, I will present your ceremony (my style is relaxed, warm and inclusive) and guide you and your guests through the whole process, ensuring an enjoyable, stress-free and memorable experience.
After the ceremony, I will stay for a short time, to make sure you are happy with how it has all gone and to meet your family and friends. (I will always be happy to share a glass of something fizzy with you before I leave – I am easily persuaded!)
Kind messages from happy clients
"Johnny was such an integral part to our day that we feel so lucky to have had him conduct our ceremony. Having come to him very late on in the process, he did everything possible to help design the perfect ceremony and delivered it in a way that perfectly suited the atmosphere we wanted for the day. We couldn't recommend Johnny enough for anyone that wants to create the perfect ceremony."
"Thank you so, so much for Saturday. We absolutely LOVED it! The ceremony was just such an amazing, intimate, personal and special way to formalise our commitment to each other. We absolutely loved working together on the script with you. Everyone was commenting on how brilliantly you did it and how personal it felt compared to other styles of wedding they’d attended. It just felt so ‘us’, in line with our values and beliefs. It also set the tone so well for the day! And what a joy to be able to do it outside. I will forever be recommending Humanists ceremonies - and of course yourself, should friends be getting married in the area!"
"Dear Johnny. We could not have been more thrilled to have the chance to meet you. Thank you for your warmth, kindness and for understanding us and our ways so well, as well as articulating all of that so perfectly and effortlessly.
We could not be happier or more grateful for having met you, truly. Your ceremony was definitely the highlight of the wedding, for us but also for many of the guests who remarked on it."
“Johnny was an exceptionally valuable asset both in the run up to our wedding, and on the day itself. We loved the fact that he was entirely willing to sculpt a ceremony around us, our preferences and our message. There was a genuine spirit of collaboration in evidence from start to finish, with zero preaching!
Perhaps most appreciated was a calm voice and copious reassurance during occasionally fraught moments. He was also great with our friends and family, and very organised. Communication was frequent and generous. Thank you so much for everything!”
“We would like to thank you for all your work on the script and the ceremony as a whole, as we both feel it was a really lovely ceremony that helped bring a focal point to the day. We have heard a lot of nice comments from friends and family about it as well, who said the ceremony was a really personal and meaningful occasion.”
“Johnny, thank you so much for our perfect wedding – it was absolutely how we wanted it, personal, beautiful, relaxed and fun! People keep telling us how much they loved it. And thank you for all your help, ideas and support – you really did a great job!”
Gallery images kindly supplied by Teme Valley Photography, Guy Collier Photography, Sarah Fitzgerald Jones Photography, Darren Gerrish Photography, Dan Morris Photography, Ben Roberts at Blooming Photography
Fees & FAQs
I know there is plenty of information you need before making the decision to go ahead with your ceremony so, here are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions…
Do you still have questions? Call me today, I'd be delighted to help!